Custody disputes are among the most emotional matters a family faces. The law's answer is consistent: the welfare of the child comes before the claims of either parent. Courts look at what arrangement is genuinely best for the child.
What courts consider
- The age, needs, and wishes of the child
- Each parent's ability to provide care and stability
- The child's education, health, and emotional wellbeing
- Maintaining the child's relationship with both parents where possible
Custody and access are different
Even a parent who does not get custody usually retains visitation (access) rights. Focus on the child's stability, not on 'winning'.
Young children are often placed with the mother, but it is not automatic — welfare of the child remains the deciding factor.